Teaching Kids About Self-Discipline
“Think before you act. Eat healthy foods so you’ll grow. Mind your parents. Oh, oh, oh, everyday… You need self control. Having self-control will help you meet your goals. Oh, oh, oh.” – Regina Burch
Self-Discipline is the next stop in my Character Education Series, and that song is probably my favorite. I’ve always enjoyed teaching about self-discipline. It’s not just about how children behave in school. It’s also about not eating cookies and cupcakes everyday even though you could.
The song “Think Before You Act” allows us to talk about healthy eating habits, making good choices even when you dont’ feel like it, walking away from heated situations, and getting your homework done first even though you really want to go outside and play. It also mentions being careful where you go and spending money wisely.
When children learn to use their self-discipline, they are able to stay focused on what’s important and reach their goals. Let’s talk more about why it’s essential to teach kids about self-discipline.
Why Self-Discipline is an Important Trait to Teach
Teaching kids about self-discipline is important for several reasons. One reason is that it can help them build good habits. When it comes to doing well in school, having good study and homework habits is vital. It’s good to teach students at a young age to establish those habits so it is second nature to them by middle school and up. Along with good school habits, they can begin to think about exercising and good hygiene as well.
Teaching children the importance of self-discipline can also set them up to be more self-aware and take responsibility for their choices and actions. They will soon realize that they are in control of what they say and do each day and in every situation, and hopefully, they realize that they need to be accountable for their behavior.
Also, children who focus on self-discipline can improve self-regulation. Over time, they will begin to have better control of their emotions whether it’s because they are angry or because they see a plate of the favorite chocolate chip cookies.
Finally, as I mentioned before, learning about self-discipline prepares students for success in the future. When we teach children to demonstrate this character trait, we are instilling a valuable skill that can help them succeed in many areas of their lives, including school, their relationships with their family and friends, and eventually in their future careers.
Books About Self-Discipline
I love using Interrupting Chicken by David Ezra Stein with 1st graders. This adorable story is about a little chicken who interrupts her father during storytime and provides a perfect example of NOT showing self-discipline. Check out the read-aloud video of Interrupting Chicken.
Even Superheroes Have Bad Days by Shelly Becker gives a unique take on self-control. I love how the author talks about the powers superheroes COULD use when they get upset, but they choose to use self-discipline instead. Check out this read-aloud video of Even Superheroes Have Bad Days.
My Mouth is a Volcano by Julia Cook has been a go-to for years by many. It’s another perfect book to use for self-discipline. It’s great to use at the beginning of the school year when teaching students to raise their hands and to wait until they are called on before speaking. It also teaches them to show self-discipline when someone else’s story reminds them of something they want to also share. Check out this read-aloud video of My Mouth is a Volcano.
As you prepare to teach your students about self-discipline, consider adding The Self-Discipline Files to supplement your lesson. The resource comes with a lower and upper elementary version. It also includes pamphlet versions for those looking for a print-and-go option.
Teaching kids about self-discipline plays an important part of their development because they learn how to control themselves and how to make responsible choices. As they learn these good habits, they will be preparing themselves for future success. So, let’s encourage children to practice self-discipline and help them develop the tools they need to succeed!
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