Dare!- A Bystander’s Perspective

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Dare! (The Weird Series)- savvyschoolcounselor.comIn a previous post, Weird!- A Bulling Victim’s Perspective,  I wrote about one book from The Weird Series by Erin Frankel.  The book Weird! is written from the perspective of the victim in a bullying situation.  Today, I’ll be focusing on the second book in the series: Dare! This book is written from the bystander’s point of view.  Like before, this school counseling lesson was used with my fourth grade friends.

One thing I really love about the series is the parallel story line.  The main character, Jayla, is often seen standing nearby in the first book.  In Dare!, we are given the opportunity to learn more about what Jayla was really thinking when she saw and heard Sam bullying Louisa.  We even discover that Jayla was so scared that when Sam “dared” her to say or do mean things to Louisa- she would.  She doesn’t like feeling used and thinks about some of the things she wants to say to Sam.  Readers are reminded of different episodes in the first book, but this time they’re from Jayla’s perspective.  She soon realizes that doing nothing is unfair to Louisa and to herself.  She decides to make her own “dare” by standing up for Louisa even though she is scared.  She prepared herself with responses to give just in case Sam lashed out at her for saying how she really felt.

When Louisa went back to being herself, she acted like she didn’t care if Sam called her weird.  Jayla acted like she wasn’t scared along with some other bystanders.  Like Louisa, she noticed that Sam began to leave her alone.

Like the first book, Dare! has notes from the main character after the story.  Jayla has the Courage Club.  Her activities include a discussion of feelings.  Jayla felt bad when she just stood by and did nothing.  For this activity, the students think of words other than “bad” to describe how they might feel in a bullying situation.  There are a few sentences for students to complete with another word for bad.  Jayla felt good when she finally stood up for Louisa.  Students now think of words other than “good” to fill the blanks in a few sentences.  There is also a brief reminder about the difference between telling and tattling.  I used these activities for our discussion after reading the book.

The Courage Club also includes a discussion about being prepared to stick up for someone who is being bullied.  I created this activity sheet to use with my fourth graders to close out the lesson.  In order to be prepared, the students wrote statements they can make or actions they can take when they see or hear someone being bullied.  The students were able to share their ideas with their classmates before we concluded the lesson.

Click the picture below to print a copy of the activity sheet.

Activity for Erin Frankel's book Dare! created by SavvySchoolCounselor.com

Louisa had her polka dots which represented being who you are- Never lose your polka dots.   In Dare!, Jayla has stars.  The author reminds students- “…your brightest star shines from within.”  Hmmm, I see hearts on Sam’s shirt at the end of this book…  Tune in later for a post about the book Tough! to learn more!

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Look Who’s Been Spotted: Entirely Elementary School Counseling

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Look Who's Been Spotted! - Entirely Elementary School CounselingAre you looking for some great and original ideas for your school counseling program?  If so, be sure to check out Dr. Susan Fuller’s blog Entirely Elementary School Counseling!  I am always waiting to see what she will post next. You can see one of her creations, the “Be” display,  on the wall just outside my office.  I want to take this time to share with you why this blog is one of my favorites!

  • Entirely Elementary School Counseling contains several great lesson ideas including the Coping With Conflict Toolbox and Hunter and His Amazing Remote Control.  The very first lesson I adapted was Dr. Fuller’s lesson using one of my favorite books titled One by Kathryn Otoshi.  I like how she talked about sharing this picture book with 5th graders at the end of the school year which is exactly what I did.  I especially like how she tied in the discussion of people in history who have made a difference.  I am looking forward to using the book with my fifth grade friends again this year.
  • Dr. Fuller is also very creative and shares several ideas on her site. Be sure to check out her Motivational Medals and her Button Bucket.  One idea I LOVE that I mentioned earlier is the “Be” wall she shared.  This went along with her theme for this school year which is “Be Yourself.”  I’ve said before in another post, I was so appreciative that she shared the words and signs on her blog for all to use.  I have gotten so many compliments about my display.  I am always sure to mention the awesome counselor who shared it so that I could create it!
  • Entirely Elementary School Counseling also has great ideas for small groups.  Dr. Fuller recently included an awesome post, Winterized Small Groups- Part 1, where she explains in great detail how she organizes her small groups.  This post has so much information, and it really made me want to rethink my approach to the small groups I conduct outside of Lunch Bunch.  The “Part 1″ in the title indicates there is more great information to come, and I am looking forward to it.

What I’ve mentioned here is just a sampling of what can be found on Dr. Fuller’s wonderful blog.  Be sure to check it out.  I am certain you’ll find several great ideas to incorporate into your school counseling program.  This blog does not disappoint!

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National Boards: Understanding Entry 3

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National Boards Entry 3Entry 3 focuses on Maximizing Academic Learning.  For this entry, school counseling candidates are required to provide academic counseling to an individual student.  A maximum of 12 written pages, one video recording, and an academic intervention plan must be submitted with this entry.

Eight of the standards must be represented in Entry 3.  I explained how to incorporate the standards into your writing in my post Planning for Entry 1.  Doing this is important so be sure to refer back to that post if you still are not clear about how to do it.

I’ve heard many candidates consider this entry to be the toughest one to pass.  Don’t look at this way.  Approach this entry just as you have the others.  Make sure to provide sufficient evidence for your assessors.

Choosing a Student for Academic Counseling

There are no age requirements for the student you wish to choose for this entry.  I chose a 5th grade student for my entry.  I felt as though this was a good age to receive academic counseling since our 5th graders are preparing to transition to middle school.  Since I worked with a 5th grade teacher for my career lesson,  I collaborated with her in order to find a student in her class to provide individual counseling.  We discussed several students in her class.  It was important to find a student who would not only benefit from academic advisement, but who would also be receptive to it and do his or her part to make improvements.

It is a good idea to use specific data to support your selection.  You can include this data in your initial description of the student.  Data may include report cards, assessment data, past test scores, or any other documentation the teacher has about the student.  The teacher will be able to tell you exactly where the student needs assistance and what goals he or she would like the student to reach.

You can also conduct your own surveys once a specific goal is chosen.  These results can also be used during the session.  I met with my student prior to our planning session to complete a couple of surveys in order to get an idea of how he learned best and how he approached test taking.  Use the information you’ve gathered from the student’s teacher to guide you in any pre-assessing you choose to conduct.

Video Recording

Your video is limited to a maximum of 15 minutes.  You will need to make sure to address each of the required areas in this short period of time.  As I’ve said in a previous post, take a moment first to look at the questions in section 2 (Video Recording Analysis).  Here, you will learn exactly what the assessor will be looking for during the video segment.  You’ll need to show various examples of your work including how you engaged the student in meaningful discussion in regard to his or her need for academic advisement, how you encouraged active participation from the student, and counseling skills and techniques used just to name a few.

When thinking about your counseling techniques, remember what the assessor will see while watching the video.  Think about your seating placement.  How does it look if you and the student are across from each other at a table?  If sitting at a table, you’ll want to utilize a corner so you are close enough to work together yet still able to maintain your own space.  Think about your non-verbal counseling skills here as well.  Be sure to convey a warm, respectful, and genuine tone.

This is a good time to begin refreshing your memory about counseling theory.  You will need to explain your knowledge of human growth and development and academic theories of motivation and skill development.  Additionally, you will need to refer to the theoretical background for the counseling skills and techniques you implement throughout the session.  Remember also- the assessment piece of the NBPTS process includes your knowledge of theory.  It doesn’t hurt to begin reviewing the major theorists now.

You can read Pointers for Videos if you need to know more about what is expected in your video recording.

Academic Intervention Plan

The intervention plan should be created collaboratively with your student.  Make sure this is exhibited in your video segment.  The assessor should hear both your and the student’s input for the creation of the plan.  As with any plan, you’ll want to include a goal and the steps you will put in place in order to reach the goal.  Be sure to set high yet attainable goals for your student.

Stick around!  You can follow Savvy School Counselor with free email updates.  As always, I’d love to hear from you.  There are always so many things I could say in these NBPTS posts.  However,  the posts would go on and on and on…  If you have specific questions, please email me through my contact page.  If I find a recurring theme in my emails, I will try to address it in another post.


School Counseling Linky Party 2013

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Linky Party

I’m excited to join Marissa Rex of Elementary School Counseling.org for her 2013 School Counseling Linky Party!  Per her instructions, I have listed my best blog feature, my favorite blog post, my most popular blog post, and my top 5 school counseling blogs I follow.

 

Best Blog Feature

National Boards Support from Savvy School CounselorWhile pursuing National Board certification in 2008-09, I had a very difficult time finding support specific to school counselors.  I was able to find little tidbits here and there, but most of what I found was pretty general or just for teachers.  When I decided to create Savvy School Counselor, including NBPTS support for school counselors was one of my main focuses.  The process can be so overwhelming.  So, I have included a page on my blog with posts that break down the process for school counselors.  I am very happy to have found a way to help others on their NBPTS journey.  You can check out all of my NBPTS posts by clicking here.

 

Favorite Blog Post

 

Lunch Bunch Anyone?I conduct Lunch Bunch groups regularly at my school.  It is a time for me to work with and get to know more of the students at my school who may not otherwise attend a regular small group.  It allows me to tackle several topics throughout the school year.  It also gives me an opportunity to highlight good behavior.  Lunch Bunch Anyone? is a series of posts that I will continue to write that share how I conduct the group sessions along with some activities I use.

 

 

Most Popular Blog Post

Test Taking Foldable

 

With over 20,500 views to date, my most popular blog post is 8 Tips New Test Takers Should Know.  This was one of my first blog posts when I launched back in late April of 2012.  I was amazed at how many people like this idea. I believe it remains my most popular post because it wasn’t just something school counselors could utilize.  Many who pinned this on Pinterest are teachers.

 

 

Top 5 Blogs

Just look at the “My Favorites” page to see my top five blogs.  Although I will be “spotting” some of my other favorites in the new year, I took the time in 2012 to highlight the following five blogs:

Elementary School Counseling

 JYJ Counselor

 

Corner on Character

 School Counselor Blog

School Counseling By HeartSchool Counseling By Heart

 

How to Participate

Create a blog post titled “School Counseling Linky Party 2013.”
Place the Linky Party logo (above) in your post.
Answer the questions (above).
Submit your blog post link to Elementary School Counseling. Be sure to link to the actual post, not your homepage.


National Boards: Entry 2- Exploring Career Development

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National Boards Entry 2School counselors must deliver a classroom lesson about career development for the second entry for NBPTS.  This entry requires a video segment that is not to exceed 15 minutes.  You can read Pointers for Videos if you need to know more about what is expected.

Nine of the standards must be represented in Entry 2.  I explained how to incorporate the standards into your writing in my post Planning for Entry 1.  Doing this is important so be sure to refer back to that post if you still are not clear about how to do it.

Entry 2 requirements include a maximum of twelve pages of written commentary, the video recording I mentioned earlier, and a maximum of seven instructional materials related to the lesson.  Find a classroom teacher who is willing to allow you to use his or her class for the purposes of this entry.  Send the required student release forms home with students in advance.  You will want to know who does and does not have permission to be featured in your video recording.  Once you know this, you can create a seating arrangement that allows students without video permission to sit in an area behind the camera and still participate in the lesson.  These students can still answer questions and be heard during your recording.

As you begin to think about the lesson you will present to your students, be sure to include the following points as stated by NBPTS:

  •  show your ability to explain and illustrate an important career development topic;
  • actively involve and engage the students;
  • focus on concepts and problems that are challenging and appropriate for the class;
  • engage students in critical thinking and problem solving; and
  • show your ability to use appropriate technology to enhance student learning of the career development topic.

My advice is to be creative.  Look for several career lesson ideas and activities and use them to create a lesson that addresses each of these areas.  Just finding a career lesson from a book on your shelf isn’t enough.  Think about what you are being asked to demonstrate and create a plan to do just that. To create my lesson, I read through each of the questions for the written commentary and listed parts of questions I would have to answer.  Examples include:

  • Student competencies you plan to address
  • Traditional and nontraditional careers
  • Community involvement
  • Video:  Determine students’ comprehension of the concepts associated with the understanding of the career development topic.
  • Video:  How will you provide constructive feedback?  (You will need to include your response(s) to students’ questions.)
  • Video:  How will you demonstrate fairness, equity, and access for all students during your lesson?
  • Video:  How will you use technology?
  • Video:  Show two different student interactions during the lesson where they are engaged in active problem solving or critical thinking.

In 2008, I used Paws in Jobland to incorporate technology into my lesson.  At the time, our classrooms did not have smart boards or iPads like we do today.  So, I used an aver key and connected my laptop to the television in order to share that portion of the lesson with the entire class.  Your entry isn’t all about the technology, you just need to show evidence of how you included it during your lesson.  Don’t overwhelm yourself with this piece of the entry.  Just be sure to show some form of it during your video recording.

Also, be sure to think about the career theorist(s) your lesson is based on and be ready to explain how the theory(ies) guided your lesson.

The instructional materials you are required to submit must relate to your video recording.  The materials are not limited to worksheets.  They can include screen shots from websites you used or Power Point presentations.  Your candidate ID number must be present on each page, and pages should be sequentially numbered.  Make sure your content is on one side of each page.  If you use both sides, it is considered to be two pages.  If you use student work samples, make sure names are not included.

Stick around!  You can follow Savvy School Counselor with free email updates.  As always, I’d love to hear from you.  Let me know if you have any further questions about Entry 2.