The A, B, C, and D of Bullying

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Free Bullying Poster- SavvySchoolCounselor.comWith Bullying Prevention Month in full swing, I have been focusing on the subject in my school counseling lessons.  A resource I’ve mentioned before that I really enjoy using is Diane Senn’s Bullying in the Girl’s World.  This week, I began using the PowerPoint (that comes on the CD in the book) with my fifth grade friends.  The PowerPoint is such a great discussion starter.  I thoroughly enjoy using it with my students.  This lesson is one time where we are simply having a discussion and nothing else.  I once felt like I needed to come up with something for them to “do” while we went through the slides, but they are always so engaged that the PowerPoint is enough.

It first asks the students to raise their hands if they have ever bullied someone.  This is always interesting.  I usually do have 2-4 students who are brave enough to admit this from the beginning.  I always commend them for having the courage to raise their hands.  After going through several examples of “bully behavior” another slide says to raise your hand if you’ve had bully behaviors.  At this point, I’ll usually see more hands come up.  Many students don’t realize what bullying truly is.  Many are quick to say they are being bullied.  This lesson really helps them understand more clearly.  I’ve said it before, but this book is a must have for elementary and middle school counselors in my opinion.  I LOVE it!  The classroom lessons section is great for both boys and girls.

Bulllying in the Girl's Word by Diane Senn

Dr. Robyn Silverman, a child development specialist, was a guest on Good Morning America yesterday.  She was there to discuss an incident in the news that was being called bullying.  She spoke about what bullying is and it fell right in line with the PowerPoint I have been using with my fifth graders.  I loved her A, B, C, and D of Bullying.  She says when determining if a situation is bullying or not, remember A, B, C, and D:

  • A- Aggressive: Bullies attack physically, socially, or emotionally.
  • B- Balance of Power is Unequal:  The balance of power is usually unequal such as bigger vs. smaller and older vs. younger.  I added Diane Senn’s point about the power of popularity.
  • C- Consistent:  Bullying happens more than once over a period of time.
  • D- Deliberate: A person usually bullies with an intent to do hurt or harm.

I thought this information would make a great poster to put in classrooms to help students remember what bullying is.  So of course once I got home, I made one.  I envisioned the black background with the colored letters, but I decided to make one with a white background and a black and white version to give you options.  You can download your free copy by clicking HERE or by clicking the picture of the poster at the top of this post.

I’ll be starting The Weird Series again with my 4th graders in November.  I’m looking forward to doing those lessons again.  If you don’t know about those wonderful books, just click HERE to see my three posts.

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My School Counselor- Freebie Download

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FREE TpT Download- My School Counselor ActivityIf you are already thinking about your Meet the School Counselor lessons, let this FREEBIE be one activity on your list.  It’s a simple activity sheet for school counselors to use with students as they discuss their role within the school.  It can be used like a note taking sheet or a review activity to be completed after meeting the counselor.

The sheet offers a space for students to list reasons to see the counselor.  You may have them brainstorm and share, or you may give them reasons to list on their sheets for future reference.

There are two sentences to complete also.  One says “The counselor is my adult friend because…”  It’s important that students realize how your relationships with them differ from those with administrators and teachers.  The other says “My counselor keeps my secrets unless…”  Your first meeting with students should always include this discussion.  School counselors keeps secrets unless someone is being hurt.

The cloud at the top is a space for students to write what they want to talk to the counselor about.  You can give the students an opportunity to share their clouds privately with you during the lesson as you circulate the room.

You can download this FREE sheet at my TpT Store.

Meet the Counselor GameI’ve also created a product to go along with my Meet the Counselor game shared in my post Meet the School Counselor Ideas from last year.  In this post I shared about a game I play with my 5th graders which incorporates a Nerf basketball  and goal set.  This product sells for $3.00 on TpT.  However, it is discounted to $2.50 today through Tuesday, July 16th.

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It’s My One Year Blogiversary!!!

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Blogiversary.jpgYes, I made up a word, but I love it!! :)  I’m sure I’m not the first to use it!

On April 24, 2012- I launched Savvy School Counselor.  I can’t believe it’s already been one whole year! Wow!

Although I had five posts up on my launch day, my official launch day post was 8 Tips New Test Takers Should Know.  It was right around this time that my school was gearing up for the end-of-grade tests, and I created the activity to do with my third grade friends.

I had the support of wonderful bloggers like Andrea Burston and Marissa Rex from the very beginning, and I appreciate that support more than I can ever say.

So, I just want to say a big THANK YOU to all of you who follow Savvy School Counselor and who have made my first year as a blogger a wonderful year.  I was really hoping I’d get the chance to meet many of you face to face in Philly at the ASCA Conference, but I will not be able to make it this year.  However, I am determined to be in Orlando, Florida for the 2014 conference.

Now that I have a year under my belt, I want to begin inviting guest bloggers.  I remember how appreciative I was to Barbara Gruener for giving me the opportunity last summer to write a guest post for her wonderful blog.  I was just about three months into my blog at the time.  I would love to offer the same opportunity to other new school counseling bloggers.  So, if you are reading this and would like to write a guest blog post for Savvy School Counselor, be on the lookout for more information coming soon.

Stick around!  You can follow Savvy School Counselor with free email updates.  You can also follow my TpT Store to keep up with my latest products and freebies.  I’m looking forward to continuing this journey with all of you!  Thank you again for a great first year!!


School Counseling Linky Party 2013

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Linky Party

I’m excited to join Marissa Rex of Elementary School Counseling.org for her 2013 School Counseling Linky Party!  Per her instructions, I have listed my best blog feature, my favorite blog post, my most popular blog post, and my top 5 school counseling blogs I follow.

 

Best Blog Feature

National Boards Support from Savvy School CounselorWhile pursuing National Board certification in 2008-09, I had a very difficult time finding support specific to school counselors.  I was able to find little tidbits here and there, but most of what I found was pretty general or just for teachers.  When I decided to create Savvy School Counselor, including NBPTS support for school counselors was one of my main focuses.  The process can be so overwhelming.  So, I have included a page on my blog with posts that break down the process for school counselors.  I am very happy to have found a way to help others on their NBPTS journey.  You can check out all of my NBPTS posts by clicking here.

 

Favorite Blog Post

 

Lunch Bunch Anyone?I conduct Lunch Bunch groups regularly at my school.  It is a time for me to work with and get to know more of the students at my school who may not otherwise attend a regular small group.  It allows me to tackle several topics throughout the school year.  It also gives me an opportunity to highlight good behavior.  Lunch Bunch Anyone? is a series of posts that I will continue to write that share how I conduct the group sessions along with some activities I use.

 

 

Most Popular Blog Post

Test Taking Foldable

 

With over 20,500 views to date, my most popular blog post is 8 Tips New Test Takers Should Know.  This was one of my first blog posts when I launched back in late April of 2012.  I was amazed at how many people like this idea. I believe it remains my most popular post because it wasn’t just something school counselors could utilize.  Many who pinned this on Pinterest are teachers.

 

 

Top 5 Blogs

Just look at the “My Favorites” page to see my top five blogs.  Although I will be “spotting” some of my other favorites in the new year, I took the time in 2012 to highlight the following five blogs:

Elementary School Counseling

 JYJ Counselor

 

Corner on Character

 School Counselor Blog

School Counseling By HeartSchool Counseling By Heart

 

How to Participate

Create a blog post titled “School Counseling Linky Party 2013.”
Place the Linky Party logo (above) in your post.
Answer the questions (above).
Submit your blog post link to Elementary School Counseling. Be sure to link to the actual post, not your homepage.